How to Give a Female an Orgasm

Me and my girlfriend has been having sex for over five months and never had an orgasm. I did not seem to understand what the problem here. She has had two partners before me and have not given him an orgasm either. Not seem to know what is wrong, but what I notice is that you never in the mood to do it and besides that she says she feels as if it boots your vagina I've said time and again to go visit a gynecologist, but it is too vague.

It also says that if the environment was well it might be possible for her to achieve a female orgasm, I agree to some extent, but frankly I think something is wrong with your vagina. She loves me to death and says that sex really does not bother you, but I do and the fact that I can not give you an orgasm makes me feel that I am a total disgrace.

Teach me how to give a woman an orgasm, how to increase female sexual desire. How can you learn to orgasm? Tell me about making a woman orgasm.
Answer:

There is an old Chinese saying:

Man is fire, woman is water. The man's fire brings the woman's water to a boil.

Listen to your girlfriend, she says, "if circumstances were right it might be possible." Women are not, as men are, immediately stimulated by sight. They need more time. They need the right atmosphere, some romance, sometimes candles and soft music can help.

To keep the hope that you and wants to have sex, you have to court her, so she feels like an attractive woman, and not as a service provider. Men often can compensate for a fight to make love, but women need to feel that the relationship is good first to feel the desire.

"Why do not you love me?" is a question that kills all desire. Say instead: "You are so beautiful, I can not resist!"

If you are stressed out and think about the problems, sex is not going to work. She needs to get into the right mood. Be kind and give much love and appreciation.

Making love is a slow process for a woman and may have to start many hours before, for love and attention from the man she loves.

Women need more sexual stimulation than men. To begin, whispering sweet nothings in his ear and caresses of his whole body, but not in the genital area.

Be sensitive, all the time, what he likes and what she wants to hear.

Do not stroke the genital area until you are ready (use lubricating gel, which can be bought from a pharmacy). You must have patience. She can not get an orgasm until after 20 minutes or more. And sometimes does not work, even if you do everything right. You need your love anyway.

Most women do not achieve orgasm through normal genital sex. And men often are tired after their orgasm. Because of this, it may be best to ensure that women have an orgasm before the man. Still later will be excited and enjoy your orgasm.

Women can enjoy sex even if they do not get an orgasm. They enjoy the closeness and intimacy, the fondling and the feeling of love and desire. The request of the man she should have an orgasm can be a problem for women. Despite this, you should try to learn to meet it. Know women who have left their boyfriends when I met a man that knows the right way.

His girlfriend probably will not want to go to a gynecologist, because she feels that this is not the problem. A treatment for vaginal dryness lubricant gel. Do not tell that she is lazy, but try to understand their desires and needs. Respect her, if she does not want to go to a gynecologist. Criticizing the desire and willingness to kill all who may feel uncomfortable with this for a long time.

If you want something from her, ask her in a nice way without criticism. Listen to what he says and try to understand their feelings and needs.

A woman who has never had an orgasm may be able to learn this in practice. Your chances of success are greater if you have a partner that meets their needs.